Of course Memorial Day is dedicated to those who have served our country in a military capacity, but to me it's always had a secondary dimension, a reminder of those spouses, parents, or siblings who stay behind to keep the domestic pieces together.  I've never known anyone who has been deployed, but having the love and support of those they are separated from is what a civilian can contribute, and it's not a small task to bear.

So today I'm thinking not only of those who have risked or given their lives for our country, but those who have sustained them and, sadly, suffered if their loved one was lost or wounded. To those who stand behind someone in the military, I salute your bravery and strength as well.